The Truth About Fear

The Truth About Fear…
 
For years, many of us have heard of the acronym F.E.A.R standing for False Evidence Appearing Real, which resonates deeply with our daily realities. Today, as I reflect on moments of fear, it often coincides with decision-making. It's almost as if, inevitably, fear creeps in when crucial decisions must be made. Unfortunately, or perhaps fortunately (as I smile and wink), it feels like God doesn't shine a neon sign of direction at those critical moments of decision-making. Boy, how I wish I could have those unmistakable signs delivered via Amazon Prime from the divine source!
 
But, I digress.
 
As I ponder the root of fear, I'm reminded of feeling fearful in moments of uncertainty or when stepping out of the known "comfortable" zone. It all goes back to uncertainty, doesn't it? I must admit, I don't possess a magical solution for overcoming fear. However, I've found it incredibly empowering to confront my most feared moments and realize that I not only survived but emerged unscathed. Procrastination, I've discovered, often masks deep-rooted fears. So, I've been challenging myself to face them head-on. Yes, for me, it's about completing that book and bracing myself for what comes next. It may sound absurd, but that's one of my secrets.
 
Now, here's the kicker. I've noticed that my fear sometimes stems from unfamiliarity. Take, for instance, the daunting task of creating banners on PowerPoint, which initially left me feeling timid and afraid. I hesitated because I was clueless about navigating PowerPoint for such creations. However, necessity truly is the mother of all invention. Instead of shelling out money, I turned to YouTube tutorials, followed the instructions, and voila! It was a game-changer!
 
Discovering my ability to tackle this seemingly insurmountable challenge was incredibly empowering. So, to all those grappling with fear, remember this: your fears may not be as trivial as mastering a new computer skill. Your fears might hinge on life-altering decisions. But here's a nugget of wisdom I can share — confront that fear head-on, seize it by the throat (figuratively, of course) and ring it tight until it dissipates. Okay, maybe not literally. Instead, let's harken back to Nike's iconic slogan: JUST DO IT!
 
Take the plunge, make those bold and scary decisions that keep you awake at night. Con front the person you've been hesitant to approach, ask for that promotion, skydive, launch that business, elope! Whatever it is that gives you pause, conquer it with boldness. I can assure you, the liberation that comes with just doing it is unparalleled.
 
So, as you navigate through moments of fear and hesitation, remember to embrace the unknown, challenge yourself to step outside your comfort zone, and face your fears head-on. Just like ripping off a Band-Aid, sometimes the best approach is to take a deep breath and dive right in. After all, as the saying goes, fortune favors the bold. Just do it.

​~Memory

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